Category Archives: Intimacy Techniques

‘Stroking’ To Save Lives

Posted on November 22, 2010 by SuzieHeumann

I’m a sensual kind of person. My body informs me. As a species, we humans have generally forgotten to pay attention to the information our bodies are revealing to us. We’re a thinking species and by being thus we think ourselves through situations rather than feeling through situations. This leads to a systematic demise of our abilities to recognize bodily functions that can lead us to healing modalities we used to know about back when our brains weren’t so big… Continue reading →

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Pleasure Fibers & Touch: Pleasuring Me Pleasures You

Posted on November 22, 2010 by SuzieHeumann

I love to swim. I love the water running past every inch of my skin, tickling the hair follicles as it passes over my alert and ready nerve endings. I dive into the pool outside my living room French doors and push off repeatedly to the surface from the bottom of the deep end. I experience the thrill it gives me as I push up from the bottom and break the surface. I focus my mind on the sensations the water makes streaming past every hair follicle on my body, over and over again. I am training my mind/body to more fully love the sensations I already know and love… Continue reading →

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Ritual and Ceremony: Innate Longing for a Revival of Tribal Intimacy

Posted on November 22, 2010 by SuzieHeumann

We go to places where we will find our ‘tribe’ because we want to be surrounded by the same values, actions and activities that stimulate us. This is a process of activation of mirror neurons. Mirror neurons help us to assimilate with the others of our family, culture, society and tribe. The same areas of our brain that fire when we see someone else doing an action, fire when we do the action ourselves. This is part of what makes us social human beings… Continue reading →

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Playfulness – Can Getting Experimental Lead To Orgasm?

Posted on November 20, 2010 by SuzieHeumann

Orgasms are important to women no matter how convincing the idea of being in pleasure without being goal oriented is. Some of the time you can do this and some of the time you want an orgasm, pure and simple. Cultural constraints, modern media, lovers and friends can all influence how you might feel about your body, emotions and your ability to orgasm. Sometimes you just want what she’s having and you want it now. If that’s the case with you then find your lover, get playful and read this: Continue reading →

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Satisfying Sex For Boomers

Posted on January 11, 2011 by SuzieHeumann

The Kama Sutra made a revival in the early 60’s and so you’d think that this age set would have done a lot of alternative exploring through-out the years and come up with a great set of techniques to carry them through. If a small percentage of boomers practiced the Tantric sexual practices, well, all the better. But it appears as though some of these ideas and practices have eluded the group. If they had done their studying things might be looking different for them. Continue reading →

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